If you’re considering adoption, it’s completely normal to have moments where you question your plan. This is a big decision, and it’s not something most people feel 100% certain about every step of the way. You might feel confident one day and unsure the next. That doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. It means you’re taking this seriously.
One of the most common questions we hear is: What happens if I change my mind?
The answer depends on where you are in the process.
You Can Always Take Your Time Before Placement
If you are still in the early stages of creating your adoption plan, you are in control. You can change your preferences, take more time to think, or even decide that adoption is not the right path for you. There is no deadline forcing you to make a decision before you’re ready.
In Indiana, you cannot legally sign consent to adoption before your baby is born, which means you have time to think through your options, ask questions, and make sure you feel confident in your plan.
It’s Okay to Adjust Your Plan
Even if you feel certain about adoption, parts of your plan can still change. You might want a different level of contact with the adoptive family. You might feel differently about the type of family you’re looking for. You might want more time in the hospital after birth. All of those things are part of your adoption plan, and they can be adjusted as your feelings evolve.
No two adoption journeys look exactly the same, and your plan should reflect what feels right for you and your child.
What Happens After Consent Is Signed?
After your baby is born, you may choose to sign a consent to adoption. At that point, the decision becomes legally binding. In Indiana, there is a limited, 30-day window where a birth mother can attempt to withdraw consent, but it is not a simple or guaranteed process. It involves going through the court and proving that the change would be in the best interest of the child. Because of this, adoption professionals will always encourage you to take the time you need before signing anything.
You Don’t Have to Navigate This Alone
One of the most important parts of the adoption process is having the right support around you.
That may include:
- an adoption attorney
- a counselor
- trusted family or friends
At Herrin & Leach, our goal is to make sure you understand your options and feel confident in whatever decision you make. You should never feel rushed or pressured, but informed and ready to make the best decision for you and your child.
If you’re wondering whether it’s okay to change your adoption plan, the answer is yes. Your feelings may shift as you move through the process, and that’s part of it. What matters most is that you have the space to think clearly, ask questions, and make a decision that feels right to you.
Choosing the right attorney means choosing experience, communication, and confidence at every stage of the adoption journey. Call today to schedule your free, confidential consultation.