Private Adoptions

Private or Independent Adoption: Finding The Right Family


Our world is wide, and we meet many people in the course of our daily lives. Sometimes it happens that an expectant mother will meet a couple who is looking to adopt. These meetings often happen at church or work or in the community.  More often in today’s world expectant mother’s locate adoptive parents through social media and the internet, as well.

An established relationship may be a good fit and both parties will need to work with an adoption attorney to formalize and finalize the process. An adoption that does not utilize an agency is known as an independent or private adoption.

Often a pregnant woman will not personally know a couple or family to adopt the child. An experienced adoption lawyer has the resources and networks in place to work with this mother to find a good match for her wishes for the child. At Herrin & Leach, we have the resources to assist expectant mothers.

The Advantages Of Independent Adoptions

Perhaps the best part of independent adoptions is the lasting relationships that are formed. Private adoptions may also provide the adoptive parents and the expectant mother greater control and afford the direct communication they desire.

Another advantage to this route is that the adoption process may move quickly sometimes as fast as two or three months. If the adoptive parents locate the child through their own efforts, they may also benefit from lower overall costs.

Indiana permits adoptive parents to pay some costs during the pregnancy. These include the birth mother’s pregnancy-related medical expenses, living expenses, including food, phone, housing and transportation, counseling costs and fees for legal work related to the adoption.

Regardless of whether or not a mother desires to receive allowed assistance, it is important to ensure that any assistance complies with Indiana law. An expectant mother can receive living expenses so long as the assistance is for an authorized expense during an allowable time period. In this regard, Indiana Code 35-46-1-9 permits living expenses to be paid during the second and third trimester and up to six weeks after birth. The mother may receive up to $1,000 in necessary, miscellaneous living expenses during this same time period.

What Is Not Allowed

In Indiana, there are restrictions on expenses paid in independent adoptions. Generally, an expectant mother may not receive more than $4,000 unless the court approves an additional amount after finding that the health of the mother or child is in jeopardy.

Need Clarification? Please Call 317-566-2174.

Indiana adoptions are celebrations of joy. But the law is intricate and statutes are not always easily understood by non-lawyers.  

If you are considering adoption and need clarification and explanation of what is and what is not allowed, please send our Indianapolis office a message online. We will respond to you within 24 hours to answer your questions.

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Compassionate & Experienced Indiana Adoption Lawyers

We work diligently to ensure a successful adoption. When done correctly, adoption offers expectant mothers, prospective parents and the child all the chance for a bright future.  When you come to our office, we will take the time to answer all of your questions, explain the process and clear up any aspect of the adoption process that might be confusing.

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